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SEND TO FRIEND Young single people in Shanghai are becoming increasingly open to pre-marital sex and accept the idea of living together before getting hitched, but confusingly they also think that it is important to marry a virgin, according to a recent survey on sexual attitudes.
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SEND TO FRIEND Wany single people in Shanghai are becoming increasingly open to pre-marital sex and accept the idea of living together before getting hitched, but confusingly they also think that it is important to marry a virgin, according to a recent survey on sexual Cjana. The survey suggests Chinese adults have sex times a year on average, a little bit higher than the world average of times. More on this story. I can only learn enough about a girl after I live with her for a period," said Andy Shen, a year-old t-venture employee.
Global Gender Index
Those s are surprising considering 30 percent of those surveyed said they are no longer virgins. The Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences surveyed single men and women between 20 and 30 years old living in 25 neighborhoods.
But when it comes to cross-cultural marriage, far more Chinese sxe date or marry Western men than the other way around. In the world, there were 45 percent of the questioned admitted to having a one-night stand, but only 32 percent of Chinese made such an admission. To ses parents' generation it was inconceivable to marry a foreigner. She says she now receives scores of s a month from Chinese people curious about meeting and dating foreigners, or partners new to, or experiencing difficulties, in cross-cultural relationships.
By contrast, Jun is known as "the legend" amongst his peers as they generally regard having a Western wife as a "status symbol", he says.
SEXUAL ACTIVITY IN CHINA
Within her small expat community the social isolation was almost immediate. They plan to live in China permanently and hope to give Jun's parents a longed-for grandchild.
A foreign woman with a Chinese man is a rare pairing. Nearly 41 percent of those surveyed were under the age of 22 and respondents were an almost equal mix of men and women. Aiching says she helps couples to talk aant their feelings - something which is "kind of taboo" for Chinese - and to understand one another's cultures.
In addition, the survey indicates that Chinese people have the most serious attitude toward sex. But the s of Chinese CChana foreigners has gradually risen, with 53, such couples tying the knot in One of China's most famous scholars of sex, Li Yinhe, says one possibility is that Chinese men lack confidence. Being able to speak English elevates you in terms of salary and job opportunities, she says.
But in most households it's the woman who makes all the major financial decisions. Researchers conducted the survey by sending out questionnaires and holding group discussions with students, blue- and white-collar workers and the unemployed. Nearly 60 percent said that virginity is one wanh the requirements for their ideal spouse - with both men and women saying they want to marry a virgin. But they still have to face the challenges and struggles of daily life.
About 19 percent of university students said they are sexually active.
She "dreamed of travelling abroad". No-one else can do it for me'," she says. The West captured the imagination of Yong Zhi as a young girl growing up in Beijing. She had moved to Shanghai in to be with her now-husband Jun Yu. Earlier this year, British actor Hugh Grant announced the birth of his second child with Chinese partner Tinglan Cyana. Wendi Deng, who became known as the 'tiger wife'was married to media tycoon Woken Murdoch for 14 years before their split in June.
Sex in China: An Interview with Li Yinhe
According to the survey, half of the interviewees think it is understandable for engaged couples or people in love to hit the sheets before tying the knot. Only A factor in this revolution is that young Chinese people increasingly have greater autonomy from their parents in choosing a partner, Mr Burger says. But she says the media - movies, television shows, online dating sites - also play a role. Mr Burger agrees saying: "Men are engrained with a cultural imprint and are brought up to believe that they are the head of the household, they have the power.
She is celebrating 16 years of marriage.
Sex survey: Virginity is still important virtue in China
But cross-cultural marriage can be tricky, says a relationship counsellor at the non-profit Community Center Shanghai CCSwho gave her name as Aiching. It was a time when public displays of affection were punished and any discussion of sex was considered Western spiritual pollution. Jun's parents married in during Mao Zedong's Cultural Revolutionwhen China was closed to the world. She says she knows of educated, good-looking women who go to certain bars in the hope of meeting a Western man to marry.
Many respondents also noted it is easier to break off a trial marriage if problems arise than it is to get divorced.
In China, the Western fantasy meets reality," she ses. Jocelyn says there was a time in her relationship with Jun when stress, personal issues and cultural differences collided to create a "perfect storm". When Yue Xu, an actress and self-styled dating guru, returned to her native Beijing in after years living in the US, she was struck by the increase in expats in the capital, and the of Western men dating Chinese women. She Chanw alienated by her girlfriends, who would openly express their distaste for Chinese men.
While attitudes are becoming more Wmen, virginity is still seen as an important virtue. Nearly 70 percent said it can help them learn more about the personality of their partner and more than half said they can take care of each other by living together. We didn't know what would happen if the university administration found out, so we told no-one he was living off-campus with me," she says.
A survey earlier this year by British condom maker Durex suggests that Chinese people enjoy a better sex life than the world average. More than 50, of the overrespondents were Chinese. Three-fourths of respondents said there are advantages to living together in a trial seex before officially ing in wedlock. A of high-profile mixed couples have captured headlines in China and the West, perhaps driving the trend.
Eighty-three percent of Chinese couples said they are satisfied with their sex lives; 73 percent for the world average.